Tuesday 18 February 2014

Meditation - FAQ 3

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Q: Why Meditation doesn’t happen?
A:  We do Meditation, but nothing happens. Just check out the important points below. Maybe these are causing obstacles in your Meditation.

1. Ailment (Sickness): If we are sick, then our energy is focused on that part of the body which is sick. E.g. We have headache then our consciousness is focused on our head.

Solution :There are 2 ways of resolving it.

b) By Unconditional Acceptance:  Refer Unconditional Acceptance

2. Laziness of Body: Body becomes lethargic or dull although we are not sick.

Solution: There are 2 stages when this happens.
A) Beginners: Who have started meditation for quite some time. We should keep our body fit and flexible by right food, right sleep and right exercise. Remember that each person has a different structure, environment etc.; hence they should follow what is appropriate to them.

B) Advanced Meditators: Who have been doing meditation for a long time. They have also experienced different spiritual experiences. Only for some meditators this stage comes. It’s like switching gears of cars. At this stage most of them switch to their old gear. We should not do it. It’s a natural phase and it will pass away. Instead we should accept it as it is (Refer Unconditional Acceptance) and with our will power allow it to pass away at its own pace (refer Determination(Resolve) Meditation ).

3. Laziness of Mind: Body may be fit or not, but mind becomes lazy.

Solution: We should keep our mind fit by getting involved in creative activities which we love doing, like painting, dancing etc.. Also the above solution of point no 2. Laziness of Body applies.

4. Suspicion: To drop suspicion is not easy but quite possible as it is the Mind.

Solution: Initially have hypothetical trust. Then if you get results, automatically trust will become stronger and suspicion will be erased gradually. Also certain Breathing exercises and Unconditional Acceptance will help. 

5. Negligence (Carelessness) : Self Explanatory

Solution: We need to take proactive steps in becoming alert and then move to awareness (refer Difference between Alertness and Awareness)

6. No Resolution / Determination. If we do not have any resolution or determination to do meditation, it is sure that after some time we will drop it.

Solution: We need to have a strong Will Power Refer Determination(Resolve) Meditation.

7. Wrong Notion / Concept / Belief: People have their own theory of meditation. They think its concentration etc. which may not necessarily be.

Solution: Accept that there can be other viewpoints which are real. Keep your mind open. The thumb rule is what works for you is important, not what  you think works for you.

Wisdom Pointer: Most of the points given above are about mind rather than body. The ratio is 90:10. So it is clear, take care of your mind and rest everything will fall in place.

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